Again, this is just my opinion and I am not judging because this is something I have to figure out for myself when the time comes.
One thing I’ve noticed with Christian girls in college is that so many of them will tell me that they’re still virgins & they’re saving themselves for marriage… then they turn around and tell me the sexual things they do with their partners. I am not telling you this to put anyone of these ladies out/down. If your boyfriend is groping you, if you guys have to do whatever you’re doing in a room, or doing anything else together while your clothes are off, what’s the point of waiting? If I were in that position, I would just go ahead and have sex. Why? I am already offering my body to man sexually. I am already sinning. What’s the point of putting yourselves through the agonizing pain of waiting when you are already sinning sexually without any remorse?
If i’ve got this all backwards or if there’s a reason why we as Christian ladies can do anything with a guy as long as it’s not intercourse, please let me know. Again, I am not judging because I am in a situation where i’m trying to figure out if I want to stay a virgin any longer. This is something that I’m curious about.